I used to be fearless with challenges and new opportunities but since the pandemic I question things more and have doubts, how can I be more like I used to be
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You are not alone in your thoughts; I am sure many people feel the same way.
Being at home was like your comfort zone, you felt protected from the outside world. You did not have to impress anyone and we’re not taking any risks. We became more aware of the internet, suddenly seeing things we might not have seen before, access to endless information and data causing confusion and overwhelm but because we were at home, we still felt safe.
Before the pandemic as adults, we had a sense of freedom. We could do what we liked when we liked, then suddenly we were being told what we could do or not do creating more confusion and fear. As much as life seems to have gone back to normal, things have changed including our emotions, identity to possibly life choices.
80% of what we do is repeated behaviour. We like things that are familiar. So if you look back over the last 2/3 years, fear was common emotion making us question things we might not have questioned before.
Tip, for now, we are out and about. When you truly focus on what you want, nothing can stop yo
I hope that helps.
Jacquie
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